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Sunday, March 27, 2005

Looking Back....

Argh, I cannot believe that I'm typing this again, but I must get this off my chest!!!

Ok, recently I've been pondering over the definition of true friends (yea again). I mean I've already know that true friends are people who not only celebrate your happiest moments with you, but they are also people who stand by you, giving you support at your darkest moments. Sigh, so what am I thinking of?

Yea, I know true friends are people who have that kind of special bonding with each other. They understand each other well without words, and I know that indeed it is rare to meet people who can understand you as well as your feelings. That's why I treasure people around me whom I feel are people who know me inside out. And I must say a BIG thank you to all of ya for your guidance, support and help that you've given me thus far.

I believe that true friends are able to resolve any issues or misunderstanding easily through a simple chit chat session. I mean, what miscommunication can there be if you 2 truly understand each other? Why do you need to run away and avoid confrontation? If there's no confrontations, problems and disputes cannot be solve and this will eventually amount into something big serious which might break up the friendship. Hmm, so let us all logically talk things over k?

There's something which I realised as well, and that is how little I know about the people around me. Yea, I know that I appreciate and admire people for what they are and not who they are, but I realised how important it is to know more about each other's past. After all, by knowing more about what other people have been through, I will be able to understand them better and hence appreciate them more. Of course, the lessons I get from them will make me realised how little of the world I've seen as well as how blessed I am indeed.

Hmmm, I also realised that almost everyone around me has that special person whom they can always fall back on in times of need... Do you exist for me... are you there?? Well, I hope that when the time comes, you will be there for me...

Hehe, I've also realised that I'm experiencing something which I think is pretty unique -- I know my friends' friends and somehow or other I will become good friends with their friends as well. Is it because I am an extrovert or that I'm sociable? I don't know... But all I do know is that it is pretty amazing that I actually know so many more people thanks to my immediate friends. It has indeed widened my social circle by a lot, which is good since I've learnt more life lessons too...

Ok, so what does this mean? Ok pals, if you do know any nice gals, please introduce them to me. It's not that I'm desperate, but I think it is always good to know more people. Haha. I'm real thankful that I do have people around me who shower love and concern on me. Thanks a lot people! =)

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